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No Fear and Family Travel: Raising Brave Kids in a Big World

Fear: The unpleasant feeling when something is believed to be dangerous or to cause pain.

Fear isn’t necessarily a bad thing. It is what helps to keep us alive and sometimes, I wish my kids had a little more of it. My kids are so willing to embrace new food, new adventure and new people with little (if any) hesitation. For safety reasons a healthy dose of fear is fine. It stops us from doing stupid things that could kill us! However, too much fear can stop us from living life to the fullest. It can lead to negative feelings and irrational judgments. Fear of the unknown can lead to hate, but knowledge can lead to understanding. Although I want my kids to be cautious, I don’t want them to be afraid of their own shadow either. Through family travel I believe we are raising brave kids in a big world.

No Fear and Family Travel: Raising Brave kids in a big world

Kids are a reflection of their parents; good and bad. If parents have fear, so do the kids. Joseph Biederman and colleagues showed in a 1990 study that inhibited kids were at increased risk for anxiety and even phobic disorders. I’m pretty lax on my censorship, but so far I have seen no negative results from that exposure. However, I do know children who were over-sheltered and had their fears catered to eventually grow into anxiety ridden adults with strong negative opinions about people they’ve never met, food they’ve never tried, and places they’ve never been. Reality is real and you can’t protect them forever. Personally, I would rather prepare my kids, so that they can feel a sense of ease and confidence as they navigate the world on their own one day. One way I do this is through family travel.

3 ways Family Travel helps to create Brave kids in a big world

1. Brave Eats:

Picky eaters. Ugh. We all know them, the kid that will only eat mac n cheese, chicken fingers or cheese pizza. I know picky eaters too and you know what? Usually their parents are pretty picky eaters too. Your kid will only eat mac n cheese and chicken fingers if all you ever offer them is mac n cheese and chicken fingers. Don’t get me wrong, my kids love that stuff too, but they can also equally enjoy a meal at the Indian buffet or at the Ethiopian restaurant. Why? My only answer is that we’ve exposed them to exotic flavors since they were babies. My kids have eaten alligator in Florida and Haggis in Scotland. Not saying that they’ve loved everything they’ve tried, but at least they are willing to try it. They see mama and daddy excited about new food and they get excited too. In fact, I’ve written a whole post about how to expand kids’ culinary palette and how to travel through food that you may want to check out HERE and HERE.

No Fear and Family Travel: Raising Brave kids in a big world

2. Brave Adventures:

Let’s be honest, scaredy-cats are not much fun to travel with, unless you are a scaredy-cat too. My kids have been to haunted houses and festive zombie hayrides, airboats, paddleboards, down towering waterslides, wild rides and more. This is not a brag session about how cool and brave my kids are, they haven’t liked all these activities. Some things they’ve loved and some they have cried after the fact. Don’t worry, they eventually started talking again! All jokes aside, the point is that they tried it! My kids have done some pretty “scary” stuff, but as a result they are pretty chill people and cool to have around. Their fears have been put into perspective. They are not likely to freak out or be dramatic watching a Disney movie, because mama just traumatized them on the zombie infested haunted hay-ride!

No Fear and Family Travel: Raising Brave kids in a big world

3. Brave Hearts

Yes, family travel exposes kids to new food, new activities, but it also exposes kids to new people and cultures. I think what I love most about the qualities I’ve seen developing in my children is their fearlessness when it comes to meeting new people. They have been around so many different things that they are less likely to feel fear when they experience new situations or people from different cultures. Everyone is a friend to them and their brave hearts warm my heart. Giving the gift of travel to your kids gives them unique and varied experiences that they obviously would not have at home, making them more open-minded and easily adaptable to new environments. Let’s be honest, when kids are not comfortable in a situation it can be really awkward for the parents. So, I encourage all parents to reveal the diversities of our world early and see them flourish!

No Fear and Family Travel: Raising Brave kids in a big world
Making friends with a zombie

That’s A Wrap:

Raising brave kids in a big world is really about building their self-esteem through knowledge and experience. For me an easy way to accomplish this is through family travel. My kids are still very young and there are so many places we have yet to visit, but so far I love the curiosity with which they approach life. I’m looking forward to seeing how these experiences continue to shape them. I encourage every parent to fearlessly embark on adventures with their children. Hopefully, we can all raise a kick-ass generation of global citizens!

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I am a busy mama with 3 delicious babies and a serious itch for travel and writing (when I am not bartending, that is)! After graduating from Cal State San Marcos with a B.A. in Communications, I decided to start a family and pursue a career in freelance writing. I created HotMamaTravel as an outlet to do what I love while sharing useful travel tips and inspiration with others. Our mission is to show parents how to master travel with kids, while keeping your Saturday-night selves. We call it "Family travel...with a twist".


  1. Early age impressions leave a footprint for the rest of the life. It’s great that you are using this opportunity visely. Thanks for sharing 1

  2. I think you are just on the right way raising your kids. I totally agree that kids should be raised with the idea of trying things and being open. I remember my mother being more the fearful and full of anxieties type. interestingly this made me the fearless type. thanks for sharing.

  3. You are doing the best thing you can do with your kids. Your kids will be so much further ahead in life than their peers. And, they will know the secret that we share that the mass population does not know…it is not such a scary world out there after all…

    • Yes. Absolutely right. My kids say some of the most profound things sometimes and it comes from their global experiences. The best part about not being afraid of the world is the kindness they feel free to express.

    • How funny. I will check out your post. It is so true though, travel really does benefit the family and us travel moms see it every day!

  4. This is such a great exemple of how traveling impacts our kids. Mine are so much more open minded. Even if sometimes they don’t remember everything, it will stay with them somehow for the rest of their lives. It is such a great way to share with them precious moments and experiences!

    • Right, I hate when people say they want to wait to travel with their kids until they are older and can remember. Travel influences them as people even as babies. I’m actually surprised what my kids will remember from trips they took as toddlers. Plus it is a bonding experience.

    • Thank you. I just want my kids to be open-minded and comfortable with life. Travel does the work for us. Ha.

  5. I love this so much! I was a sheltered kid and met my husband in college. Together we tried new things and got out of our comfort zone. Being open-minded and teaching your kids the same is an amazing gift!

    • Thank you. Same here, my hubby and I really started our exploration together.We laugh, because are kids get to experience things as toddlers that took us 30 years to do.

  6. Love this! We’re a traveling family too and think it’s such an awesome way to raise kids!

    • Aw thank you Amanda! I love that you travel with your family too. We’re raising global citizens.

  7. Love Love Love this post! I am not a parent so I will never say anything to offer an education on the matter but my parents raised me to always try everything once in my life. I didn’t have to love it, or even like it but I would never know if I didn’t try it once!
    With travel you are exposed to so many things that are new and unique and sometimes you are lucky enough to find a wonderful surprise that you fall in love with.
    Great job with how you are raising your children!

    • Thank you for your kind comment! I always encourage my kids to at least try something out of their comfort zone. I just want my kids to be aware of what’s out there so they aren’t afraid unnecessarily.

  8. Truly awesome how you take your kids on these adventures. Sure enjoy reading and seeing the photos of your explorations. Nice job.

    • Thank you! I get so much pleasure from watching my kids learn about world around them and embrace it.

  9. I’m not a parent but I agree with everything you say here. As a kid my family did not travel much but we did have a few trips that exposed us to different things. I’m not sure how that shaped me but I’m sure it did.

    • My mom was afraid to fly when I little, so we only did trips that were drive-able. I think it is more about the embracing of new experiences that benefits everyone.

  10. My parents travelled around with my brothers and I a fair bit and I hold them wholly responsible for my itchy feet. It’s good to reflect on the fact that your actions do have a direct influence on your kids. You want to show them the right road in life and hope they’ll be inclined to walk down it. Sounds like yours are on the right path for sure!

  11. Truly nice article & I enjoyed reading. I have two-year-old kid & I too wish to make her brave & adventurous. I will definitely follow those tips. Thanks for sharing.

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